Emma had an instrument audition this morning, for the West
Virginia Governor’s School for the Arts (GSA).
This was on the heels of her audition last Saturday for the WV All State
band. Last week’s audition did not go
very well for her. In fact, as I stood
outside of the audition room listening to her play, my heart broke for her. I have heard her practice those pieces for
months; sometimes flawlessly, sometimes with mistakes, but never the way had
she played it that day. She was too
nervous and she choked under the pressure.
She walked out of the audition room with such a look of defeat and despair,
all I could do was open my arms for her to fall into. I was so grateful that Derek showed up after
her audition, because her mood completely changed upon seeing him.
Today’s audition went so much better! She came out of the room smiling, relaxed,
and happy (making me an extremely relieved parent). After she gave a hug to a girl she knew from
another school and exchanging wishes of good luck to each other, we headed
home. On the drive home, Emma described
today’s audition and went over the questions he asked her. The judge sounded like a nice guy who helped
the kids relax as they performed for him.
When I asked who else from her band was auditioning, she ran through the
list of names which brought us to another conversation. Apparently in school yesterday, upon hearing
Emma say she was auditioning for GSA, one of the girls turned away from Emma
and said “I don’t know why she’s auditioning for GSA. She couldn’t even make All State”.
I don’t understand why this person would choose to say
something like that, other than she has an extremely over-inflated ego. If you have ever auditioned for anything,
especially anything musical, you only get one shot. There are no “Oh wait, let me try that again”
moments. You are either on that day, or
you are off. Sometimes you can recover,
sometimes you can’t. Even the most
talented musicians have off days. It
happens. Emma is second alternate for All State and, for as bad as her audition was, she was only two points away from making the orchestra. I think that says quite a bit about her talent and she should be proud.
I don’t think my
child would ever say something like that to another child, either to their face
or behind their back. Given the mom network in place around here, I am almost positive I would have heard from someone if Emma were ever mean. I hope that I
raised my children to be thoughtful, kind, and compassionate (Frank passed his
sarcasm on to them). Emma may not be in
Honors and AP classes, and she’s made a couple of bad decisions that she has
been apologizing for over a year for, but I’ll take her silly, kind heart any
day of the week. In fact, my 15 year old daughter still holds my hand in public, which to me is priceless and worth way more to me than Honors and AP classes.
Parents, remind your kids to be kind to each other - Life is too short not to be.
Mom rant over, now to prepare for today's swim meet.
I can't imagine Emma ever being a snide, ignorant girl like that classmate of hers. In fact, I've never seen her be anything but kind to others. So yeah, momma, you're doing it right. Love you!
ReplyDeleteThat means a lot coming from you! :) Love you right back!
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